Sharing – Shush In-Flight Talker

On the move and need to rest before arriving to the next destination. You put down everything and there things goes wrong!

Ever heard of in-flight talker who seem want to be friendly yet ignoring our thought or don’t even bother to ask – Can I have a talk with you? Mind talking with me? such simple question which can lead into further mutual understanding of personal time privacy.

There are many way to resist individual with this behaviour:

 

Zap any hint of interest. You’re no cold fish. We know. But if from the get-go, you really don’t want to talk, take a tip from an introvert. They get caught-up in conversational vortexes all the time. “We listen hard and are inclined to try to steer conversation from chitchat to something substantive, which is encouraging to people with a lot to say—not all of it, or even any of it, interesting,” says Sophia Dembling, author of The Introvert’s Way: Living a Quiet Life in a Noisy World and 100 Places in the USA Every Woman Should Go. So Dembling has had to develop some serious anti-interest tactics. “That means limiting eye contact, not asking questions, not making little encouraging noises—none of it. A brief nod, a polite smile, a murmured response, and turn back to my book or computer.” Feeling ishy about giving a fairly cold shoulder? Don’t. The gabby one, clearly, isn’t worried about your time or needs. Says Dembling: “While you don’t want to be harsh or nasty, you also can keep in mind that you don’t actually owe this person anything. Maybe he or she won’t like you, but does that matter?”

Read more at Entrepreneur by Jenna Schnuer. Enjoy 🙂

Mumbling – What Are Your Proof Of Self-existence Online.

What is your proof of self-existence on the net?

People might wonder, even some will labelled me as unwise or crazy or even stupid person for making a blog ads-less (such time wasting activity). I do mention to those around me (back then in 2006) the first day www.madnilk.com were up and running – Am going to be a Pro Blogger and the only way I’ll make money are by sharing my own services or products (that genuinely give benefits to everyone). A name that am proud to share – such cases as what happen to Virgin Group.

That name represent me online as long as the internet are here to serve it purposes. This is the backup to show people about my existence ( a proof that I can show that am not wasting time surfing for nothing) when they ask me – how you can show or express your existence online with humongous time spend all day long throughout entire life.

Trust me! I’ve gain many knowledge (by ALLAH’s will) in term of doing it on my own for every purposes that you can think off – online. Not to mention many great friendship’s bond created along the road. The more you do things on your own, makes you appreciate what other serves – free or paid. This ethic alone have give me awesome chance to involve with 6 different industry/segment since the very first day I venture into online sphere. Times is not a factor what differentiate our success – it is more into results of generous income while achieving satisfaction on what we do.

Am not trying to put/left impression toward others – its their to decide. Am just aiming to do what I want and like that give self-satisfaction while praying that people will get benefits from it.

We can gain money with knowledge and become millionaire, but old brick and mortar millionaire can’t buy knowledge even if they want it. So, do share me; your proof of existence online – so that we can be friends rather than being a virtual contact without any feeling or pure knowledge exchange. Heck, this going to be in my blog later on today. God bless everyone who read this. Aamiin

p/s: Am planning to do a personal business directory.

Sharing – Sydney Appealing Spy Drone.

http://vimeo.com/91580674

Appealing video of Sydney from the lens of so called drone – small remote controlled toys (expensive for normal hobby, yet its worth the price). Have a nice time watching.

Voice Out – Search And Discovery In Life.

Two word with insignificant use, which in fact, it is different. When seeing things via our keyboard it might change based on what we try to seek.

Search is an action where we knows thing and want to find more information about it. We’ll seek many known source until the end result are found – sound and solid.

Discovery is what happened when us encounter something we didn’t even knew that, we were looking for. Just name it – ideas, formulas and many more. Its the ultimate word for people who seek information and were blessed with luck. It might start with a simple search!

Life are full of surprise either by searching or seeing new discovery.

Don’t get me wrong – what I am trying to say is not about this two word individually. Its the lesson behind the action and the reaction afterwards.  An action seeking information is a deed of striving for the truth of everything, which might end up discovering things worth sharing.

We have so many things to know and so many things to understand – people might say, go find a teacher and you will learn. Learn to differentiate what matters most in life about searching and discovering things that will make a change – in our’s or other’s.

From my opinion internet will suite your purpose of searching and discovering, then later on find a teacher to explain it based on their knowledge and experience from years of studying in their expertise.

What really matter in this post is seek knowledge with information then differentiate it by comparing wisdoms and opinion of various teacher. After you get the answer and confirm it – start the spark of sharing is caring.

We never know what we search and discover will be useful toward society or even a nation. Our life are our’s but what we do will effect others.

Mumbling – Cloudy Sky Outside

Its been two days since having bad dream and head ache. Looking up outside the window, such cloudy day resembling my cloudy head. I been wondering hard on what to do and what to choose for the future. Owh God please help me with this.

Its true when we have too many keys in hand we feel excited and eager to do almost all of it. Those who knows better – We can’t take all in life. There are things we have to leave behind so that the journey can be continued. I’ve been in pending mode since last two days. I really need to move and walk fast (even running is the option) but still I have problems deciding which key to hold while embracing the future.

Human will never know what best in life until it happens. The time will come and I really hope that today the decision I make will lead me for better happiness. Wish me all the best and luck.

Education – MUET Examination Reference Book 2013

Hello everyone. I wan’t to make an announcement starting from this year, my team have decided to stop www.muetguide.com in action and distributes the e-book for free using my personal website online. For those who had bought it previously, thank you. Those to come – please support me in writing more free e-books.

So there will never be any law infringement taken if you share it with others (as long as its directed here for the downloading process). This e-book were written  in Bahasa Malaysia to enhance the essence of better understanding the contents. Enjoy!

MUET cover 2013

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People – Pleasing Hazard Causing Chronic Stress

Chronic StressMany would never dare to even thinking out of it – having a chronic stress in today life, a life full of distractions and issues. So, everyone will try to pleased almost everyone they know; so that they will never have to deal any conflict in there future. At their lost, most of them are doing it the wrong way – making a ticking time bomb of pleasing people even it will cost their future and life.

Extreme people’s pleasing can be a leading factors for many major diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, cancer, obesity and all manner of maladies related to chronic inflammation. It also leads to depression, anxiety and a host of psychological issues.

Chronic people pleasing equals chronic stress. Please take note – when living a life full of stress – our physiology are at risk.

5 EXAMPLE OF PLEASING HABITS THAT WILL COST YOUR LIFE!

1. Social Session. When ever you get along with the crowd, never give out yourself toward their mentality, which is often unhealthy. Overeating and drinking heavily while enjoying the session might cause you losing virtue as a result.

2. Acceptance. People’s Pleasing goes hand in hand with social acceptance – the course of anxiety. We pleased to get approval, which rarely we experienced no matter how many time pleasing others. Why? Its due to other people lack possessing power to give us deep approval that we seek, ultimately.

3. Pleaser Autopilot. When you are on autopilot as people’s pleaser, interestingly the people you are pleasing end up taking you for granted. Ultimately, they will take advantage of you by not reciprocating, leaving you with a feeling of chronic resentment.

4. Support-less. Human nature are blend through support from each other. People’s pleaser, are sadly tend to get less support. They tend to give it all for free, anyway, anyhow  no matter what its value and that makes them not worthy by others – just a reference when needed and a burden to help.

5. Meets never met. Being a people pleaser, we will highly disregard and neglecting our own needs. Taking time for ourself, relaxing, learning and growing as an individual takes a back seat to the demands of others – will far more put you out of this issues.

Over Pleasing is Hazardous.

Let us agree on this term – serving others is noble, while pleasing people at all cost is bad. The  worse thought that people’s pleaser had is being useful to others, so that once they need help – help will be given. This is totally wrong and hazardous!

Make a change – instead of being a people’s pleaser become one that only help when needed. Change it now!

Voice Out – Simplified Things And Planning On A Mini E-Book Before End Of 2014

Its hazy morning for today start up, but am feeling great cause after so long – I am writing writing again. I’ve taken crucial action toward many in hand project this past 2 month (since early 2014). Closing a few project (cooperation with business partner and friends) such as www.cafitsolution.com (5 years old company which focus on domain, hosting and website services – inactive partner are the main reason of shut-down) and www.muetguide.com (2 years old company which selling Malaysia University English Test e-book online – mutual understanding of goals achieved are the main reason we choose to shut it off and distributed it for free, which I’ll cover this here).

So, this year am going to focus more on my own project – this personal blog (going to make it full and active again), madnilkresources.com (Madnilk Resources – Apparel, Printing And Premium Items Solution – my online homed based business).

Am very enthusiastic for this year cause its all about me and me to give to others – can’t wait to make many move/change while enhancing what already in hand. Owh not to forget that I am targeting to publish personal mini e-book of my own before the end of this year. Please support me.