Education – Learn To Find Positive Things Within Negativity Aspects.

Many of us out there always clueless when experiencing something that being consider negative in life. We taken things which happened not according to what we want as bad luck, karma and many other dark effect. But, as human we have never imagine and thinks that what really happen is a great gift from GOD.

Let us read and make a sense out of below details:

WE SHOULD BE GRATEFUL FOR…

  1. Husband/wife that sleep snoring in bed, cause being beside us rather than others.
  2. Child/sibling grumbling while cleaning dishes cause their at home and not at street gallivanting.
  3. The income tax that we paid up every year as prove that we still have job.
  4. Our clothes so tight and not fit, which shows that we are well fed.
  5. floor to be mop up, window to wipe house to keep clean and tidy, cause it’s mean that we have accommodations.
  6. Noisy friends and neighbors, does it show that our hearing are great and kicking.
  7. Heaps of clothes that need to be wash/iron as prove that we have ‘thing’ to worn.
  8. Fatigue/pain muscle after work hard, in means of we still cope to work and healthy.
  9. Car park far from lift, as evidence that we could still walk.
  10. Alarm clock rings every morning cause we’re still live to continue the day.

And, Finally….

For reading this personal and meaningful articles of mine that remind how fortunate and thankful we should be.

” IF WE DON’T GET WHAT WE WANT, LEARN TO ACCEPT AND BE GRATEFUL OF WHAT WE HAVE!!”

p/s: I’m grateful to have friends reading this articles

Family – Did I Marry The Right Person?

This article was forwarded to me.. Since its crazy wedding season now here in Malaysia, some useful tips for those who just got married, about to get married, planning to get married or who don’t even want to get married. Not sure who wrote the article though. But, please read it and make use of this great article that I really want all of you to know.

Something relates with such question being answered within a seminar. A must read:

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,’How
do I know if I married the right person?’

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, ‘It depends. Is that your husband?’ In all seriousness, she answered ‘How do you know?’

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.

Here’s the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behaviour/habit) .

Falling in love with your spouse wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called ‘falling’ in love… Because it’s happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, ‘I was swept of my feet.’ Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It’s a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades..

It’s the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, ‘Did I marry the right person?’ And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfilment.

Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else.

You could.

And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It’ll NEVER just happen to you. You can’t ‘find’ LASTING love. You have to ‘make’ it day in and day out. That’s why we have the expression ‘the labour of love.’ Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. .

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It’s a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can ‘make love’.

Love in marriage is indeed a ‘decision’… Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

‘God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.’

Info – Want To Make Our Old Mind Sharp.

Some people seem to be able to keep their wits well into old age. But some just don’t have their chance for that golden experience. Some research said that there is other factors than solely base on genetics play role. This post of mine state several factors that abide the cruel laws of sharper mind despite having awesome genetics.

While other research has shown that genetics play a role in whether people get dementia, the study adds to a growing body of research that is uncovering ways you can up the odds of keeping your brain healthy and your memory sharp now and later.

Things that have to be done are simple as follows:

EXERCISE: They found that people who exercised moderately to vigorously at least once a week were 30 percent more likely to maintain a sharp mind than those who did not work-out as often.

EDUCATION: People with at least a high school education were almost three times more likely to keep up their cognitive ability than those without this education. And those who had a ninth grade literacy level were nearly five times more likely to maintain the ability (a specific word recognition test was administered during the study to assess the subject’s literacy level.)

NOT SMOKING: There was also a connection between smoking and brain function in old age. Non-smokers were almost twice as likely to stay quick-minded as those who smoked.

SOCIALIZING: Finally, some social activity may also be good for the mind. The results showed that subjects who volunteered, worked or lived with someone else were 24 percent more likely to keep up their cognitive function.

Some might said that things are somewhat unimportant due to what they seem to have now day’s. Others just don’t bother due to busy lifestyles and lack of awareness. It just too simple to keep a sharp mind either young or old. I’m personally have never thought that making such healthy social activities give much credit into mind and brain development. About that smoking thinggy – I better stop fast.

Anyway, I hope that this entry do give useful information to everyone who read it. Daaa

Online – Some Twitter Tips People Recommend Which Will Help You Gain Respect.

Well, it seem that I might be too late posting this Twitter ‘thinggy’ but at least I’m trying to put my own version from what been heard or read from others. Lots of people post this and make their version – the essential is quite the same but here, I’m trying to built it with my own word deep from within. From my own personal point of view – Twitter is all about expressing yourself to the world within 140 characters.

On Twitter, everything quick is short. Period. Quick sprout of followers ? Possible, but not long lasting. Quick popularity ? Possible, but you won’t be remembered as a friend. Still don’t agree ?

The basic is simple to follow:

1. Communicate with people around you

2. Don’t go for the numbers

3. Bring in quality to your Tweets

4. Give respect, take respect

5. Say No when you have to. Don’t fake

6. Vary your Tweets – Don’t stick to one category

7. Choose your follower wisely – not spam

8. Be modest, say thanks for the favour and help

Why I don’t wrote it with long explanation – some people do have their own way of doing things. So, this articles is all about giving out hints to everyone. Maybe, event I lack the most right now. Hey, what we’re talking here is subjective. So, got out there and make what you thought right.

p/s: Sometimes, people read on others, but does things really reach out?

People – Story Of A Mouse In Vain.

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife opens a package. “What food might this contain?”. The mouse wondered – he was devastated to discover that it was a mousetrap. Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning. “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, “Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.” The mouse turned to the pig and told him, “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The pig sympathized, but said, “I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers.” The mouse turned to the cow and said, “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The cow said, “Wow, Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, but it’s no skin off my nose.” So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap – alone. That very night a sound was heard throughout the house – like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.

The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer’s wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever. Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup’s main ingredient.

But his wife’s sickness continued, so friends and neighbours came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. The farmer’s wife did not get well; she died. So many people came for her funeral; the farmer had the cow

Slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them. The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn’t concern you, remember – when one of us threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.

SHARE THIS WITH EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER HELPED YOU OUT AND LET THEM KNOW HOW

IMPORTANT THEY ARE. REMEMBER: EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER
PERSON’S TAPESTRY; OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON. ONE OF THE
BEST THINGS TO HOLD ONTO IN THIS WORLD IS A FRIEND – NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF IT.